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I have had issues with this through both pregnancies and then for nearly 6 months after having my daughter. I don't know what it is about being pregnant, but I have no interest in it. After having my daughter I finally determined that it was the birth control I was on. I changed birth controls and I no longer had issues.

For a long time there was nothing better than climbing into bed and going to sleep. A few zzz's much were much more preferable to messing around. Now that I sleep through the night on a regular basis, I have more interest. If it's ongoing, it could be hormonal, you might want to talk to your MD.

I have not wanted to have sex with my husband for a very long time I feel when I do it's a chore I love him but I just do not want to be bothered with it and I just want it to be over with as soon as possible. Most of the time I am just too damn tired.

I think my problem was/is how insecure I feel about my body:( We have 2 and my body has been through the ringer! I feel embarassed to be seen naked so I'm like "lights out buddy" lol

I think too that its partly due to the change in hormones; being a spouse and a parent now- all the things to do in a day really wears you out! I told my fiance that I'm not 20 anyway, those days are over!

Your drive will come back; don't worry!

Any of you been catching the Oprah Show? Dr. Laura Berman, a sex therapist, has been on the show a few times to discuss this exact issue. It's been pretty interesting. Dr. Berman has a new book out, something like Real Sex for Real Women??? Check out www.oprah.com for more info.