Need Advice - or maybe just venting...
My sister in law is recently engaged and she's chosen her wedding date. Don't get me wrong, I'm incredibly happy for her and I want her to enjoy her day. I have an issue with the date she chose. She chose the weekend of mine and my husband's first anniversary. The date she chose also happens to be her neices (my brother in law's daughter)2nd birthday. My husband and I have plans to go away with our daughters for that weekend. Her other brother has not voiced his hurt with her choice in the weekend. I am really hurt because she didn't check with her immediate family to see if that was a weekend that was good for them. The only thing she did was pick a date that the church had open and decided that was going to be the day. I have voiced my hurt and disappointment with her, but she doesn't find it worth it to change anything. I want to share in her day, but I also feel like I should be able to celebrate my first anniversary the way I would like to which is going away with my family.
If anyone has some great advice for me I would really appreciate it because I feel like I'm being unsupportive and selfish in this situation when in actuality I don't think I am being either.
